6 Sep 2011

Lanjia Lodge - great hideaway in Northern Thailand

"Over the hills and faraway.."

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Travelling in northern Thailand in the rainy season has some advantages. Less people, lower prices and greener nature. Last weekend me and mfamily went on tour yearly roadtrip up to Chiang Rai province. This time we followed a recommendation from a friend of mine to stay at Lanjia Lodge, not far from Chiang Khong and a great place to overnight if you are to continue to Luang Prabang by boat.

We started off from Chiang Mai as usual, and the journey up to Chiang Rai city was a pleasant one with our usual stop for coffee at Cabbage&Condoms. After arriving Chiang Rai, then we started the adventure. Were we to find Lanjia Lodge from the Google instructions we had? We also got a bit concerned since the road just got bumpier and bumpier. Almost a slight feel of Sri Lankan roads. But we assumed that this was the price we had to pay to get somewhere very special.

And special it was, when talking about less people I didn't quite expect that we would have a huge balcony just for ourselves overlooking a valley, the Mekong river and Laos. Actually we were the only guests at the lodge this weekend. The staff had been expecting us for some time and showed the best hospitality one can imagine. On the balcony we had our own very attentive hosts. Two persons from the Hmong hill tribe making sure everything was ok.  My son was busy trying to catch up with the Hmong village kids playing, climbing trees and hiding in the bush. Not an easy task considering the strength and stamina that these children developed running up and down the hills to get to school.But he certainly tried his best following them here and there up and down the slopes of the fruit yard. 

On arrival we mostly sat and enjoyed the view though, listening to the sounds of the valley. A distant truck, motorbike and nothing much more than that to be heard. In the evening we were served a tasty dinner with different curries and we were  entertained at the balcony. A very short music and dance performance but with a lot of genuine feel to it. (Compared to the exhausted tourist shows in Chiang Mai anyway)

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The next day we were guided around both the Lahu village and through the Hmong village. The hmong shaman explained some of the local beliefs or practices, or what we should call them. There is a mix of shamanism(animistic beliefs) Buddhism and Christianity in these villages. My son and wife also tried to make some Hmong batik and we took part in a tree planting project to help reforest this area. We also tasted the local organic tea. There is a actually a lot of activities one can participate in at the lodge. Of course they have trekking as well. Our guide told us that the normally do a one and a half hour trek to a waterfall. Well, we skipped that travelling with a four year old but I am sure it is a nice walk considering the nature in the area.

The best part was probably how evening turned to night. Suddenly the curtain was pulled down and we were left to the sounds of chic chac lizards, and cicadas. In the morning we could see how the sunrise over the Mekong lifted the misty veil covering the valley.

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Read more about the Lanjia lodge and the support of local hill tribes on the Asian Oasis website


Text and photos: Per Sundberg

 

10 Sep 2010

The Story of Thai Toilet Culture | Sign of the Thais - Part II

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A Very Thai Story about the culture of going to the Hong Nam. 
In Thailand when you visit the toilet you go to the “hong nam” which translates as "water room". 
But often you hear people ask, do you need the “happy room”? That's because when you enter the bathroom you are slightly unhappy and when you come out you are happy and most of all very relieved. 
Thai people also have a saying that women go to “pick flowers” and men they go to “shoot the rabbit” when they do number one. If you need to do number two you can hear some Thai people say,
-  "I have to run, the enemy arrived at the border already".

Sanuk, simply fun, are in many daily aspects of popular culture. Toilet signs are no exception.  Why just make a ordinary boring toilet sign, when you can make something more out of it with a sense of humor? 

As it was mentioned in the book Keeping the Faith; "without sanuk we (the Thai people) would probably all go insane". 
Doing things with a glimpse in the eye is one of the ways to relive tension from Thai society. Half serious- half joking is the way to go. 
Even demonstrations comes with at least a flair of fun and some party atmosphere. So don't be to “seriout”, it won’t take you anywhere in this part of the world!

A few years ago “The Book Very Thai” was published in it covers so many things about daily life culture in Thailand. If you haven't read it yet. Pay a visit to their website to find out more about what is

More on sanuk and funny signs you can read about here on The Northern Rose; Sign of the Thais and Festivals of Fun and Beauty.

If you have any funny toilet signs that you would like to share, then you are most welcome to post your best picture on our TNR Facebook Page.

© Text: Per Sundberg
© Photos: Per Sundberg and Jan Friman

16 Aug 2010

Chiang Mai Friends - Meeting Khun Boong

Bridging the cultural gap between expats and Thais
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Recently The Northern Rose paid a visit to the founder of Chiang Mai Friends, Miss Boong Chaladam, or Khun Boong as she is known by her friends. We met her in her office not far from Chiang Mai’s famous night bazaar. Khun Boong is a very inspirational person, bridging cultural gaps between the foreign community, the western and Thai culture. She has a unique talent that help in ‘translating’ the cultures between the foreigners that come to live here and their hosts- the citizens of Chiang Mai. Cross culture issues are part of the daily life and needs to be addressed to avoid misunderstandings.
 
Through Chiang Mai Friends she regularly help organize meetings where people can come and share experiences. Foreigners and Thais speak about their work and lifestyle in Thailand. They both share their experiences around different topics and talk about how they best can benefit Thailand as a country. Its a great way to network, but the main idea is that the local community and that the city of Chiang Mai shall benefit from it.

We asked Khun Boong how it all started and she told us that she met many prejudices when she lived in New York. People mistook her for a Taiwanese. Or when speaking about Thailand, prostitution was the the first topic that came up.

It’s the same here she explains, many foreigners don't understand what they can and what they can’t do in the Thai culture. The cultural frames are different, they don't know how to behave and how to speak in a polite way. And many Thai people find it hard to understand why foreigners act the way they do.

Some examples that she points out for us is that Immigration officers in Chiang Mai strongly reacts when foreigners visit the Immigration office sloppily dressed and then at the same time they are trying to control the situation. Thai people respect uniforms and its still important to dress politely when visiting authorities.

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Another example is when someone say; “I have a question for you”! For a Thai person that really means that you need to get something done. According to Khun Boong there is a gentler way to ask, “May I ask you something”? It’s a much more polite and civilized way to ask a Thai person about something.

The conclusion is that we all have to get better at communicating with each other and learn from each other to avoid silly mistakes.  Finding more and more people that wants to share information and communicate is the way of the future.

If you are interested in being a part of reducing the cultural gaps, Chiang Mai friends meet regularly in different locations in Chiang Mai. 

You can visit Chiang Mai Friends Group on Facebook or their web site if you wish to have more info and contact them.

© Text Per Sundberg & Photo Jan Friman

 

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